micromanagement is a management style whereby a manager closely observes and/or controls the work of his/her subordinates or employees.
Micromanagement is generally considered to have a negative connotation, mainly due to the fact that it shows a lack of freedom in the workplace.
So, how do you cope with a micromanager?
Changing their behaviour isn’t easy but it is possible in time and with great patience and resilience!
Here’s my advice …
Perhaps your manager is a stickler for good timekeeping and you take a more relaxed approach. Try and match up to their values and beliefs.
By understanding the signs of micromanagement — knowing what they are trying to achieve — you may find that you can help them realise their goals.
Pursuing a common goal will help build trust and this will give you more freedom.
At these meetings agree to do something that helps them meet their goals.
And, challenge your manager when they interfere. Remind them of the agreement and their part in the bargain. Always ask your manager for the opportunity to do something on your own.
They may be open to working with you. But then again, don’t expect too much — sooner or later they will revert to type. Sometimes it’s you who has to move on!
Understand And Reduce Their Insecurities
Micromanaging is an outgrowth of insecurity. Insecurities occur for various reasons, but it's your responsibility to discover the root cause and mitigate the issue. Often times, overcommunicating your project status, weekly progress and outcomes of meetings will alleviate the issue. Have frequent one-on-ones with your manager and get to understand concerns are so you can set them at ease.
2. Find Small Ways To Prove Your Credibility
Your manager may need a coach because they feel they cannot let go and delegate. It is often not your responsibility or place to suggest this kind of thing because it may embarrass them or hurt your career; however, you can find ways to talk to them about how you can be trusted with something small. Work to gain small wins of credibility in this area and they may release you.
3. Conduct An Interaction Audit
Inexperienced leaders generally micromanage as a way to feel in control. If you're the employee and you need to get your new leader to stop micromanaging you, take one week and make a list of all the interactions you have with the manager. Then, meet with them and share ideas on how you can improve interactions. Communicate how you can save them time based on specifics from your list.
4. Help Your Boss Delegate To You More Effectively
Take on work or projects that you're confident you'll be good at. Help your boss to delegate to you more effectively by encouraging them to share information you need in advance. Then make sure you communicate progress to your boss regularly. This will start to increase not only your confidence, but their delegation skills.
5. Ask What You Can Do To Build Trust And Independence
Schedule a meeting with your boss and explain that you've noticed their level of involvement. Then, positively note that having greater trust in your capabilities will enable you to achieve even better results. Ask how you can, together, deepen trust and independence. Does your boss need more frequent updates? Do you need to better show your abilities? Talk it through; collaborate on a plan.
6. Create More Space For Awareness
In this kind of situation, it is important to broaden awareness by having a gentle and honest conversation. Spell it out: "When you do X, I feel that I am being micromanaged, and it leaves me reacting like Y." In this way, you can pinpoint certain behaviors and communicate how they land on you. This might lead to big shifts! Or it might not, but at least you tried in good faith.
7. Mirror Your Manager
Communicate precisely what you are doing with your work, when you will be delivering it, and deliver on time (or warn the leader about delays and explain what's happening). When you deliver work, mirror some of your leader's communication style – the way they gesture, their work pace, even words they use. They will feel that your work is thorough and "just the way they would do it."
8. Ask For Feedback Instead Of Permission
We often invite our leaders to micromanage us. By asking for permission to move forward on decisions or next steps, you make your leader question your decision-making skills and credibility. Instead, keep your leader informed along the way. And, if you need feedback or coaching on an issue, approach your leader with your thought-through plan, and ask for feedback in the areas you're uncertain.
9. Put Yourself In Your Manager's Shoes
As humans, we have a tendency to overcomplicate everything. Try to put yourself in their shoes and consider why they are micromanaging. Is it insecurity? Fear? In any case, keep the lines of communication open and clarify expectations, goals and boundaries. Work will be easier with an understanding and open communication. Meet regularly to discuss, provide updates, and/ or collaborate.
10. Bridge The Gap Between Intentions And Performance
No matter if you have a concern or if the leader has a reason for micromanaging, the first thing that needs to happen is the space. Take time to talk about how you feel about your work, and how it is affecting your performance. Using that space, try to understand the intent of the leader – nearly everyone has a positive intent, so try to understand that and bridge the gap.
11. Invite Open Communication
The best way to talk about micromanaging is an open conversation, not a fight. If you are feeling that your leader is micromanaging you, you can start off by being specific: "I would like to handle X on my own, and then check with you after for feedback." If they continue to micromanage, say, "I feel like you don't trust me to complete X correctly, and I want to try. Can we talk after?" Be open!
12. Clarify Expectations
Hard conversations make us feel vulnerable and exposed to potential fallout. It's also what makes us authentic and helps build strong connections. Have a conversation about your leader's expectations of you. This will help ensure you are both on the same page. Ask if your leader is available for questions should you have any. Then schedule a daily check-in to give updates and realign expectations.
13. Don't Blame Your Manager – Work To Earn Their Trust
When we work with leaders who micromanage their teams, it’s crucially important to remember that the leader isn’t the only one at fault for their behavior. Yes, they bear a large chunk of the burden in how they lead, but let’s not forget that the team being managed has the responsibility to earn the trust required for the leader to let go. Trust is a two-way street, and that trust must be earned.
14. Implement A Transparency And Accountability System
A lot of time micromanaging is born out of lack of clear communication. Implement a tool or use technology to show your leader what projects you are working on, and how you are tracking progress. Once they know they can check up on you at any time via this tool, the need to micromanage disappears.
15. Understand The Big Picture
Your contribution is part of a big picture project that your leader is managing. Getting all the small pieces of the big picture in place, accurately and on time, can be like herding cats and lead to what is labeled as "micromanagement." Coach up. Ask your leader to take some time to share the big picture, then reassure them that you understand how your contribution affects the process.
- micromanagement as "manage[ment] especially with excessive control or attention on details.
- manage[ment] or control with excessive attention to minor details
- Rather than giving general instructions on smaller tasks and then devoting time to supervising larger concerns, the micromanager monitors and assesses every step of a business process and avoids delegation of decisions.
- Micromanagers are usually irritated when a subordinate makes decisions without consulting them, even if the decisions are within the subordinate's level of authority.
- Micromanagement also frequently involves requests for unnecessary and overly detailed reports
("reportomania")
A micromanager tends to require constant and detailed performance feedback and to focus excessively on procedural trivia (often in detail greater than they can actually process) rather than on overall performance, quality and results.
This focus on "low-level" trivia often delays decisions, clouds overall goals and objectives, restricts the flow of information between employees, and guides the various aspects of a project in different and often opposed directions.
Many micromanagers accept such inefficiencies as less important than their retention of control or of the appearance of control.
It is common for micromanagers, especially those who exhibit narcissistic tendencies and/or micromanage deliberately and for strategic reasons, to delegate work to subordinates and then micromanage those subordinates' performance, enabling the micromanagers in question to both take credit for positive results and shift the blame for negative results to their subordinates.
These micromanagers thereby delegate accountability for failure but not the authority to take alternative actions that would have led to success or at least to the mitigation of that failure.
The Signs of Micromanagement
Micro-managers lack personal leadership and tend to:
- Resist delegating work
- Immerse themselves in the work assigned to others
- Look at the detail instead of the big picture
- Discourage others from making decisions
- Get involved in the work of others without consulting them
- Monitor what’s least important and expect regular reports on miscellany
- Push aside the experience and knowledge of colleagues
- Loose loyalty and commitment
- Focus on the wrong priorities
- Have a de-motivated team
Coping With Micromanagers
Surround yourself with the best people you can find, delegate authority, and don’t interfere as long as the policy you’ve decided upon is being carried out. – Ronald Reagan
So, how do you cope with a micromanager?
Changing their behaviour isn’t easy but it is possible in time and with great patience and resilience!
Here’s my advice …
1. Assess your behaviour
Are you doing anything that could give your manager cause for concern? Are you giving the job your full attention?Perhaps your manager is a stickler for good timekeeping and you take a more relaxed approach. Try and match up to their values and beliefs.
2. Understand your manager
Learn to see things from their point of view.By understanding the signs of micromanagement — knowing what they are trying to achieve — you may find that you can help them realise their goals.
Pursuing a common goal will help build trust and this will give you more freedom.
3. Challenge your manager
Insist on having regular 1:1 supervision sessions.At these meetings agree to do something that helps them meet their goals.
And, challenge your manager when they interfere. Remind them of the agreement and their part in the bargain. Always ask your manager for the opportunity to do something on your own.
4. Frequent communication
Good communication and results is the best way to deal with the micromanager. Therefore give them an update on progress at every opportunity.Summary
Because micromanagers rarely recognise their behaviour and the impact it has on the team it is worthwhile pointing this out to them once you have gained some trust.They may be open to working with you. But then again, don’t expect too much — sooner or later they will revert to type. Sometimes it’s you who has to move on!
15 Ways To Get Your Boss To Stop Micromanaging You
Although it's common for newer managers to struggle with delegation, it's ultimately a bad habit that will lead to a negative work environment with an unhappy team and an unhappy boss. If you approach the situation professionally and tactfully, you can bring this issue up to your manager and help them see that you're capable of doing the job you were hired to do.Understand And Reduce Their Insecurities
Micromanaging is an outgrowth of insecurity. Insecurities occur for various reasons, but it's your responsibility to discover the root cause and mitigate the issue. Often times, overcommunicating your project status, weekly progress and outcomes of meetings will alleviate the issue. Have frequent one-on-ones with your manager and get to understand concerns are so you can set them at ease.
2. Find Small Ways To Prove Your Credibility
Your manager may need a coach because they feel they cannot let go and delegate. It is often not your responsibility or place to suggest this kind of thing because it may embarrass them or hurt your career; however, you can find ways to talk to them about how you can be trusted with something small. Work to gain small wins of credibility in this area and they may release you.
3. Conduct An Interaction Audit
Inexperienced leaders generally micromanage as a way to feel in control. If you're the employee and you need to get your new leader to stop micromanaging you, take one week and make a list of all the interactions you have with the manager. Then, meet with them and share ideas on how you can improve interactions. Communicate how you can save them time based on specifics from your list.
4. Help Your Boss Delegate To You More Effectively
Take on work or projects that you're confident you'll be good at. Help your boss to delegate to you more effectively by encouraging them to share information you need in advance. Then make sure you communicate progress to your boss regularly. This will start to increase not only your confidence, but their delegation skills.
5. Ask What You Can Do To Build Trust And Independence
Schedule a meeting with your boss and explain that you've noticed their level of involvement. Then, positively note that having greater trust in your capabilities will enable you to achieve even better results. Ask how you can, together, deepen trust and independence. Does your boss need more frequent updates? Do you need to better show your abilities? Talk it through; collaborate on a plan.
6. Create More Space For Awareness
In this kind of situation, it is important to broaden awareness by having a gentle and honest conversation. Spell it out: "When you do X, I feel that I am being micromanaged, and it leaves me reacting like Y." In this way, you can pinpoint certain behaviors and communicate how they land on you. This might lead to big shifts! Or it might not, but at least you tried in good faith.
7. Mirror Your Manager
Communicate precisely what you are doing with your work, when you will be delivering it, and deliver on time (or warn the leader about delays and explain what's happening). When you deliver work, mirror some of your leader's communication style – the way they gesture, their work pace, even words they use. They will feel that your work is thorough and "just the way they would do it."
8. Ask For Feedback Instead Of Permission
We often invite our leaders to micromanage us. By asking for permission to move forward on decisions or next steps, you make your leader question your decision-making skills and credibility. Instead, keep your leader informed along the way. And, if you need feedback or coaching on an issue, approach your leader with your thought-through plan, and ask for feedback in the areas you're uncertain.
9. Put Yourself In Your Manager's Shoes
As humans, we have a tendency to overcomplicate everything. Try to put yourself in their shoes and consider why they are micromanaging. Is it insecurity? Fear? In any case, keep the lines of communication open and clarify expectations, goals and boundaries. Work will be easier with an understanding and open communication. Meet regularly to discuss, provide updates, and/ or collaborate.
10. Bridge The Gap Between Intentions And Performance
No matter if you have a concern or if the leader has a reason for micromanaging, the first thing that needs to happen is the space. Take time to talk about how you feel about your work, and how it is affecting your performance. Using that space, try to understand the intent of the leader – nearly everyone has a positive intent, so try to understand that and bridge the gap.
11. Invite Open Communication
The best way to talk about micromanaging is an open conversation, not a fight. If you are feeling that your leader is micromanaging you, you can start off by being specific: "I would like to handle X on my own, and then check with you after for feedback." If they continue to micromanage, say, "I feel like you don't trust me to complete X correctly, and I want to try. Can we talk after?" Be open!
12. Clarify Expectations
Hard conversations make us feel vulnerable and exposed to potential fallout. It's also what makes us authentic and helps build strong connections. Have a conversation about your leader's expectations of you. This will help ensure you are both on the same page. Ask if your leader is available for questions should you have any. Then schedule a daily check-in to give updates and realign expectations.
13. Don't Blame Your Manager – Work To Earn Their Trust
When we work with leaders who micromanage their teams, it’s crucially important to remember that the leader isn’t the only one at fault for their behavior. Yes, they bear a large chunk of the burden in how they lead, but let’s not forget that the team being managed has the responsibility to earn the trust required for the leader to let go. Trust is a two-way street, and that trust must be earned.
14. Implement A Transparency And Accountability System
A lot of time micromanaging is born out of lack of clear communication. Implement a tool or use technology to show your leader what projects you are working on, and how you are tracking progress. Once they know they can check up on you at any time via this tool, the need to micromanage disappears.
15. Understand The Big Picture
Your contribution is part of a big picture project that your leader is managing. Getting all the small pieces of the big picture in place, accurately and on time, can be like herding cats and lead to what is labeled as "micromanagement." Coach up. Ask your leader to take some time to share the big picture, then reassure them that you understand how your contribution affects the process.